A Little Bit About Me
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* I will not respond to profiles who are not UK based.
* I will not respond to profiles who do not have a photograph or are blurred.
Assalamo Aleykum.
Thank you for stopping by 👋
If you're looking for an Aishwarya Rai then you'd better be a Hritik Roshan :)
In other words if you're looking for a skinny model to hang off your arm then that's not me. I am bigger than your average and if that doesn't bother you then you'll get a great cuddle 🤗 I appreciate we need to be attractive to our partners but I'm not solely focused on looks. At this age I'm interested in the individual and what would make us into a solid partnership with love, care, respect, devotion and being best friends.
I am practical, easy-going and open. What you will get from me is loyalty, honesty, kindness and generosity. I am not materialistic and appreciate the simpler things. I am house proud and enjoy cleaning. I love ironing! Husband will always come back to a clean and tidy home 🌟
I desire to go to Umrah and Hajj as I have not had the opportunity to go as yet and I would like this to be with my spouse. I wear a hijab and appreciate modesty. I do not celebrate milaads and khatums. I find humility attractive and prefer to be in the company of those who are honest, empathetic and strive to better themselves as people/Muslims. One of my best qualities is my patience 😇
Educated at Glasgow University, I take the opportunity to enhance my self-development. I have spent many years involved in the charity sector working directly with those in need as well as serving on boards and management committees.
I am flexible so if husband says I don't need to work as he earns enough and would rather I redecorate the spare room then that's fine by me. I may as well install a jacuzzi while I'm at it 🤭
I have a 23 year old who is self-sufficient so essentially it will be me and my husband. I will not be having children at this age. I enjoy intellectual stimulation, meeting new people and eating out. I have travelled a little by myself and like hill-walking. As well as English, I speak Punjabi and Urdu. I am a Rai by caste and my family comes from the Faisalabad region.
This is a basic snapshot of the essentials. Please get in touch with a view to getting to know me further. I could be the The One. 😇
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What I Am Looking For
Alpha male who knows his position and duties as a man, husband and Muslim. We all want the usual characteristics in our partner - kindness, loyalty, loving, caring, attentive, sense of humour etc but honesty is very important to me. Ideally I'd like someone aged between 40-60 (I'm 48) and ideally above 5'10" in height but not terribly important (I'm 5'6").
I am not looking to be in a polygamous marriage. I would like someone who is fluent in English and educated to some level so please do not get in touch if you are a taxi driver, work in a shop/restaurant/takeaway, are a security guard, a chef, used car salesman, delivery driver or work in your daddy's shop. I do not mind if you are bald, wear glasses, have a beard or have a dad bod - I'm not shallow to hold that against someone. I don't care if you have piercings or tattoos. I don't fancy going to prison so please don't be a snorer.
I would like someone who pays attention to Islam, even if it is a little. No smokers. I would prefer someone from the Pakistani background. I would only like to meet UK citizens.
I would relocate for a VERY good reason. I note men automatically expect the female to uproot and join him. There needs to be a compromise. I'm not interested in controlling and narcissistic men who want everything their way. Skinny guys don't do it for me. I do like muscles 💪but there's got to be something I can grab onto.
I don't want someone who drinks, smokes, is always out with his mates, takes drugs, wastes money, gambles, treats women with disrespect, messy, unhygienic, sends his money to relatives abroad when bills need paying, doesn't speak much, is lazy, doesn't know how to do housework, is rude and arrogant.
Still here? Well done 👏 Scary bits over 😀
Checklist -
* Read my entire profile to get an understanding of my character.
* Take a look at all my photos and be sure you're ok with my size. I'm a size 16-20 depending on which shop I'm in.
* My 23 year old child is part of me. Are you willing to be step-father to her?
* I wear a hijab and will not be taking it off for anyone.
If you are ok with this then it would be nice to hear from you 🙂
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